Integrative Somatic EMDR

A trauma-informed approach that works with your brain and body.

You may be here because your body still reacts, even when the reasons aren’t clear.

That doesn’t mean you’re broken.

It means your nervous system adapted to protect you — and hasn’t yet had the chance to stand down.

What EMDR is recognised for — and who it can help

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) is an internationally recognised, evidence-based psychotherapy.

It is recommended by organisations such as NICE and the World Health Organisation and is widely used within clinical settings, including the NHS, for working with PTSD and complex trauma (C-PTSD).

EMDR is particularly effective when experiences were:

  • overwhelming at the time

  • repeated or cumulative

  • too early, too fast, or too much for the nervous system to process

This includes single-incident trauma, developmental trauma, and trauma where memories are fragmented, unclear, or held more in the body than in words.

At the same time, EMDR is not limited to people who identify as having “trauma.”

Whether experiences come from frontline service, caring roles, relationships, medical events, or life circumstances, the nervous system responds in the same protective ways.

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“I’m not sure I’m traumatised enough…”

This is one of the most common concerns people bring.

Trauma isn’t defined by how extreme something looks from the outside.
It’s defined by how the nervous system experienced it, and whether there was enough safety and support at the time.

Many people I work with are:

  • capable, responsible, and high-functioning

  • used to “getting on with it”

  • supporting others while minimising themselves

  • surprised by how strongly their body still reacts

This is especially common in frontline and caring professions, where exposure is often cumulative rather than a single event.

You don’t need to justify your experience.
And you don’t need to compare it to anyone else’s.

A trauma-trained, somatic approach

My approach

Trauma doesn’t just live in memory — it lives in the body.

My approach to EMDR is:

  • trauma-trained

  • nervous-system-lens

  • somatically grounded

  • carefully paced

Before any trauma processing, we build resources — internal and external ways your system can feel steadier and safer.

Some sessions focus on regulation, grounding, or strengthening your capacity to stay within your window of tolerance. Others involve EMDR processing.

Your body is constantly scanning for safety or threat.
We work with that intelligence — not against it.

Your nervous system sets the pace.
My role is to guide, support, and keep the work safe, contained, and effective.

What EMDR can be helpful for

Alongside PTSD and C-PTSD, EMDR can be supportive for:

  • anxiety and panic

  • cumulative or occupational trauma

  • moral injury

  • burnout and chronic stress

  • medical, birth, or accident trauma

  • phobias and specific fears

  • shame and self-criticism

  • experiences you know are over — but your body hasn’t caught up

You don’t need a clear memory.
And you don’t need the right words.

What Other's Say......

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What a transformative journey I have had with Bernadette's help. Each session was revelationary, helping me identify things I didn't consciously realise we're affecting me & my anxiety.

The follow ups to listen to (homework 😉 cemented the progress between sessions, and I really appreciated the kind & gentle approach (probably helping me see results sooner). Highly recommend for whatever you're going through.

What EMDR is

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) is a recognised, evidence-based therapy used to help the brain and nervous system process experiences that were overwhelming at the time.

When something is too much, too fast, or happens too early, the brain can’t always process it fully.
Instead of becoming a memory in the past, it can remain “live” — stored with body sensations, emotions, beliefs, and survival responses.

EMDR helps the brain finish that processing, so the experience no longer feels like it’s still happening.

What EMDR is NOT

This matters.

EMDR is not:

  • hypnosis

  • mind control

  • about reliving everything in detail

  • something done to you

You remain present, aware, and in control throughout.

You can slow things down, pause, or stop at any time.
Choice and consent are built into the work.

Managing expectations — without minimising impact

EMDR is a powerful therapy — but it isn’t a “push through and fix it quickly” approach.

We don’t rush the nervous system.
And we don’t open more than your system can safely process.

Some people notice meaningful shifts relatively quickly.
For others, progress unfolds through steady, well-paced work.

Both are valid.

What matters most is that changes are integrated safely — so they hold, rather than overwhelm or rebound.

That isn’t dragging things out.
It’s how trauma resolves without re-traumatisation.

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A Final Thought

Many people worry that EMDR will open something they won’t be able to cope with.

A trauma-informed approach doesn’t work like that.

We work slowly, collaboratively, and with your nervous system in mind.
Nothing is forced. Nothing is rushed.

These responses aren’t signs of something being wrong with you.
They are signs of a system that adapted to survive.

When there is enough safety, the system knows how to heal.

If this resonates, you’re welcome to get in touch.

We can talk things through and explore whether EMDR feels like the right support for you — without pressure, expectation, or obligation.

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